Conventional etiquette severely frowns on putting registration information anywhere near your invitation. Let alone on your invitations! The suggested answer is to have your parents or bridal party spread the word.
But let’s face it. The reality isn’t that simple.
Who wants to be responsible for secretly telling your guests where you’re registered?
So here’s my “of this century” advice for how to share your registry information. And next week, I’ll share how to ask for money (scandal!) with dignity and grace.
Bridal or Couple’s Shower Invitation – This is often your first chance to let guests know where you are registered. But everyone isn’t usually invited to a shower, so your best place would be a…
Wedding Website – This is a great place for registry information. You can put your website address on your invitation, an additional card or an RSVP.
Add a simple phrase before it like:
“For additional information, please visit”
“Please visit our wedding website for more information”
Enclosure Card – Places where you’ve registered may give you a card to include with your invitations. Or you can order a designed card that coordinates with your invitation. Or you may separately order a business card sized card.
Here are some wording ideas:
Jaime and Thomas are registered at ….
Your presence at our wedding is gift enough. But if you would like to bring a gift, Jaime and Thomas are registered at ….
Traveling with us for our destination wedding is the best gift we could ever ask for. Some of our friends are unable to go and have asked how they could help. So we’ve registered at .…
RSVP – This is probably the least ideal place to put your registry information since your guests return it to you. So it puts the burden on your guests to note the information before sending the RSVP.
So are you adding registry information to your invitations? And how are you doing it?
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